Now, I would like to begin by saying this post from the parent is not all the mean bad, that we are in the country, I'm good, you have the right, OK? But it should be noted, sometimes (with) goes on a bit! It is good that we help to save time and shorten the conversation a little. I am sure that you get my drift! Transactional analysis is called for good reason. If we look at how two people communicate and distribute to all a single transaction to update what it takes to go there, we call it the transactional analysis. This report refers to the outline in various ways, where we operate and how we use this information for the management of transactions, we have.
What you need to manage, you can ask? If you understand how we communicate with others, you have the power to restore requests, so I love or is dead in their tracks. You want to track a conversation with this attractive girl/guy at the party?No problem!, climbed on his head, so you do not have certain work? rules and your wishes come TRUE!
The first homework, if you read the post isn't ego States and I urged to part 1 go today, whereas to understand that I speak here you must have a knowledge base that ego State.implementation? good! you have my permission to read...
Now the definition.
Of the transaction.
"The States of an exchange of blows between two people, composed of motivation and the reaction between special ego".(Woollams and Brown, 1978)
Eric Berne come rules we helps to understand that we may communicate with each other transactions in different ways to keep your.thinking cap and let's look more closely the following rules:
When transactions are free, you can go to indéterminée.Ce duration that is accomplished, I mean?"when we talk to someone, our mother State of ego that we are able to invite them to meet their child ego u.s. State ' they are well and good, it can call the interval progrès.dans, parent-child window without a change in the State, both sides of the call can go infinitely ego it appears that...."
A "sitting in the seat.
(B) - "I want to."
And, "will you do if you have, he said.
(B)-' are you still learn I was nothing.»
A "no answer me back cheeky boy."
Etc., etc., etc.
Why is it useful? If you are in a situation where you friends or to read more about that to keep your transactions if they invite responses for adults meet your adult. Coming from the child to play with them and come from childhood .you are likely to have on this route and have friendly feelings towards the other person.
If the transaction is not a call so that, if before.Jenny asks "How are you and they reply", why should you give? "Not really somewhere that you can go without a parts move request has exceeded the ego State."adults with children answer game over.is the same in the following example:
Pete - the "late you once more!"a better time!»(Contrôle_de_la_mère_et_répondant_l'enfant_à_l'invitation)
Paul-"how I dare not speak to me that she never shout me?" new!"(Parent reaction control)
It is likely that in this example, Pete would have been quite surprised and probably do not know how réagir.Il would have to reassess the situation and either change child ego State (perhaps unfortunately) or the news in the parent in both cases, the interview will be shut down and start stutter way.
Why is it useful to know the?If you call close cross-border transactions, you want to just receive.don't forget that you can apply for faire.votre relationship with the person to whom you speak, will likely suffer.exception: when you click on the transaction with the addresses of intimacy .action atmosphere commands are very useful for the dong and the privacy of another person to invite .the key of this leading to stop if you get an advance for the rant, just cross the transaction and confusing plot on his face - but be careful, it is a rapid procedure to queue top wait!
Unspoken transactions is a psychological report is heard. underlying transactions when say you one thing but means another, another message is ramassée.un example is the "allow coffee?" after a night in a new invitation partenaire.Cette can be in the discussion, the richness of the bitter (unless you're Tom Hanks in "Gros").
Retailers are on the use of the underlying transactions."It is very expensive, it is an excellent way to end the sale of clients who have a problem with the appearance good marché.Vous hear more later"prohibitive"and the child, the purchase of goods to demonstrate that it can respond.
Why is it useful? if someone uses the single child of transaction report power and feel popular .c ' is your intuition in permissions you listen to your intuition, can help you do things that are against interest if you are a reseller, you can use this procedure to other widgets to sell ethical, but Hein?
Know that the three lines of communication can help dramatically get it our messages to other personnes.nous allow power to terminate calls to communicate, that we do not want to go and success with other relations.
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